If all God’s creatures were to be nurtured in the arms of a Cancer (especially Sun or Moon), we would all be spoiled rotten with love. Overfed, dazed, and incapacitated in a swaddle. This is the sign that attunes like no other, provides the safety and room to feel anything you want to feel. They beg to be needed, and love to make you cry (with sincerity). Our sweethearts can be capricious, though. Look, the validity of what I’m about to say is laughable, but I once read a statistic that said Cancers commit the most murders. With moods as temporal and fleeting as the phases of the melancholy, full-on watery moon that rules them, they wax and wane between archetypal mother and baby, and back to mother . . .and back to baby. We’ll just assume said murders were crimes of passion. Someone was probably being very mean!
A Venus in Cancer knows the unique power of girlish, lolita-esque, Betty Boop femininity, and how to subvert it. She steps out adorned in feelings, however romantic, nostalgic, or grotesque. She’ll even make ugly look chic, because it touches on something soulful. She just cares so much. Even at its most saccharine, it’s undeniably oozing with love. This Venus creates to be connected, to be affectionate, to be comfortable, to collect (sometimes hoard), and to calm. Capricorn, the sign opposite of Cancer, is Big Daddy. The sign who works hard for material $ecurity. Cancers get dismissed as being cheap, but I would say they just don’t have the same cold, hard values in outward achievment. Venus in Cancer especially so. She takes us off the upwardly-mobile grind and pulls us gently into the domestic, the rooted, and the fully fleshed feelings of home. She may puff up her toughness at times while her own shell seems fragile - but for you? She’ll protect you with such ferocity you’ll forget all about the harshness of the world outside.